luscious_purple: Paint Branch UU Chalice (Paint Branch Chalice)
CONTENT WARNING: DEATH.

And, yes, I know I am writing about something that happened seven weeks ago.

I don't think I ever mentioned this on Dreamwidth before, but the person I've been calling "the boy toy" for many years had a real name: Nicholas, shortened to Nick.

Nick and I had such a wonderful Christmas Day together. Until the worst happened.

How it all happened... )

To be continued...
luscious_purple: Snagged on LJ (great news)
Merry Christmas to all who celebrate! If Hanukkah is your holiday, I hope it was a totally happy one.

This month has been fairly busy, with the usual activities. Unevent, the Kingdom of Atlantia's annual business meeting, is permanently online, which means it's easier for people from all parts of the kingdom to attend (the kingdom stretches from Baltimore to Hilton Head Island). Dun Carraig had a baronial investiture at a lovely site on the north bank of the Potomac River; they'll use it again for the 2024 Spring Coronation. I managed to convince R. to attend the Washington Christmas Revels; the parent organization cut back from two weekends to one this year, ostensibly because renting Lisner Auditorium is more expensive than it used to be. I hope the Revels will be around for many years to come.

I also wrapped up the Year of Many Vehicles by purchasing a new-to-me 2011 Subaru Forester. My first Subaru. Remember how I explained that I bought a Hyundai Tucson, but it couldn't ever pass inspection? Yeah, I kept on driving it without renewing the temporary registration and hoped the cops wouldn't catch up to me. Then I brought the Tucson to the Sunoco near where I used to live. I had thought, gee, maybe the first inspection station I used was acting all tight-assed because I'd never patronized them before, and the Sunoco has a good reputation for fair dealing. But the Sunoco fellow told me the exact same thing -- sorry, way too rusted out to pass Maryland inspection, ever. And as this year winds down, having a "23" sticker on my rear license plate instead of "24" or "25" will be a giant clue to the local constabulary. So I went to a *real* dealer and bought a car that PASSED inspection. It's a joy to drive.

(I am calling this the Year of Many Vehicles because I started out with a 1999 Toyota Corolla; then I had a rental Grand Cherokee for one weekend after the Corolla was totaled and taken from me; then I drove the CR-V belonging to my temporary housemates; then I bought the 2008 Tucson; and now I have the Forester. That's five vehicles.)

Despite the new wheels, I've spent Christmas Eve and Christmas Day here in Maryland. I haven't heard from any of my Massachusetts cousins, so I guess they have gotten used to my not traveling up there, so they didn't invite me. *sigh*
luscious_purple: women's rights (rights)
Thanksgiving weekend was quiet but tasty. The boy toy made a great meal for the holiday itself and found some innovative ways to use the leftovers. (Turkey and stuffing quiche is surprisingly good!) It was a little weird not going to Chessiecon, but since last year's convention was such a bust, I'm not surprised there wasn't one this year. I have no idea what's going to happen next month.

The weekend before Thanksgiving, I had a great time at Atlantia's Holiday Faire, while R. went by his lonesome to Philcon. I don't think any of his friends were there. (Well, one longtime friend of ours from Massachusetts, a fellow named Phil, died at the end of October, so he's not going to any more SF conventions.)

My last year of serving as a church trustee is proceeding apace. Things have been a lot less hectic -- i.e., fewer emergencies. Granted, we are having a special board meeting tonight, but that's to decide what kind of arrangement we will have with our next minister -- someone in the UUA's developmental minister program, which would mean a four-year commitment to trying to fix our flaws, or a contract minister, who would just be an employee who does the ministerial work for a given period of time. We are now too small of a congregation to call a settled minister, who would be a permanent minister staying for an indefinite period of time.

The boy toy and I have some Christmas decorations up, including our new Christmas tree. (The old one was a pre-lit model whose lights stopped working, so we abandoned it in the move.) But we still have more holiday stuff, including the ceramic tree my Aunt Bev made for my parents and my mother's Santa pitcher, are still in our storage unit up in North Laurel. Little by little, we are emptying out the unit, but some of the stuff will have to wait until there's a new floor in the bedroom (long story).

Movies: I would like to see The Holdovers in the theater, because a film stylized to look like a quirky 1970s movie should be seen on technology that existed in the 1970s. I really, really want to see Maestro on the big screen, but it's not playing that close to me. Sigh.
luscious_purple: Boston STRONG! (Boston Strong)
Last night I phoned my cousins up in Massachusetts to wish them a Merry Christmas. We had some cheery conversations. I miss them and their families. (OK, I haven't met the newest family member because she was born just 5 days ago -- yes, my cousin D.A. has a new baby granddaughter named Paulina!)

I'm not traveling to Massachusetts again this year for various reasons, mostly involving the weather. Earlier this week I had to talk R. out of driving to NJ for a funeral today because I was hearing predictions about lots of snow and ice. (R. has a friend in Freehold who lost his wife about a week ago -- although she had many chronic health issues, sudden cardiac arrest did her in.) I don't think we got too much sleet/freezing rain here along the East Coast, but we're certainly in a deep freeze.

At least the things I *need* to do are done, so I can do things that I *want* to do, like catch up on movies and TV, knit, read, and eat homemade sweets. The boy toy has been baking cookies and a chocolate tart. Tomorrow night, for Christmas Eve, he'll make clam chowder and biscuits from scratch. For Christmas, he follows his family's traditional menu: eggs Benedict for breakfast and a roast beef for dinner. In between we'll have a light lunch of broccoli soup, and for evening dessert we'll have a Christmas pudding, both from a "Christmas at Highclere" book his Anglophile mother gave him a few years back. We'll have a bit of Downton Abbey around here!

Not much else to say; I'm still plugging along with church and Toastmasters and SCA. I'm about at the halfway mark of my three-year term as a trustee of the congregation. Whew.
luscious_purple: Julia, the Maine Coon Cat (Julia)
I can't think of any other year when *everyone* wanted to say "good riddance" to the outgoing year. In the past, maybe somebody who lost a job or a marriage or a family member would say "this year sucks," and their friends would nod sympathetically while secretly giving thanks for their promotions and pay raises and kids' college scholarships. But THIS year? When you see chalkboard messages saying "Let us never speak of 2020 again" embedded in the middle of IKEA displays, for crying out loud....

Anyhow, the boy toy and I had a nice Christmas, even though it was just the two of us (and the holiday roast beef came out a little dry, compared with the last time he cooked such a meal -- maybe Easter?). We each got ourselves a new Kindle Fire tablet. The Fire is a little more "locked down" than standard Android tablets, in that you can acquire only the apps that are in Amazon's own app store. However, it's still very easy to use, and I don't care about the app issue so much now that I have a smartphone (though that device is already more than two years old, I think). I was happy with my other presents, including a framed set of retro-style solar-system "tourism" posters and a Hamilton tote bag. On Christmas Eve I phoned my cousins in Massachusetts and then had a much longer phone chat with R.

Till next time....
luscious_purple: Boston STRONG! (Boston Strong)
Yep, the summer heat and humidity are here, big time.

This was possibly the quietest Fourth of July weekend I've had in a long, long time. Because of the pandemic, my neighbor-friend T.V.P. did not have her usual blowout birthday-solstice-Fourth party, complete with the public fireworks display over the lake. My town did not have its municipal fireworks display this year. The boy toy and I watched the coverage of several major cities' fireworks on CNN.

Earlier in the day yesterday, I finally got to see Hamilton on Disney+ (courtesy of the boy toy's parents -- they subscribe on one device, and the subscription says "up to four devices," so they sent him the code). OMG. SO EXCELLENT. Of course I've listened to the soundtrack in bits and pieces over the years, and I've read the Ron Chernow biography on which the show is based, but somehow it all came together when I could see the action and could tell who was singing when. I've said it before and I'll say it again: Lin-Manuel Miranda is his generation's Shakespeare.

(I know some people don't like rap music, but I can take it in reasonable doses, and I don't find the speed of the lyrics any worse than listening to well-performed Gilbert and Sullivan operettas.)

On Friday I watched the YouTube video of the Lithuanian folk dance festival from 2016. The festival was *supposed* to be TODAY in Philadelphia, but because of the pandemic it has been postponed to August 2021. Smack dab in the middle of Pennsic, which of course has been postponed from this year too.

Le sigh. The whole year is being postponed. EXCEPT for the election. We MUST have the election.

Y2K + 20

Dec. 31st, 2019 11:51 pm
luscious_purple: i'm in ur fizx lab, testin ur string therry (string therry)
So, Y2K. I am living proof that planes did NOT fall out of the sky at the moment of the "Y2K crisis."

For those of you who didn't know me 20 years ago, I was working for a B2G trade publication that covered, well, how government agencies use computers. Obviously Y2K was a big deal for us. New Year's Eve was an all-hands-on-deck work night. I was chosen to fly across the continent with the head of the FAA and various other government officials, plus a whole bunch of reporters and TV crews. We were over Tennessee when midnight hit Zulu time, a.k.a. GMT/UTC, which is the worldwide standard for air traffic control systems. We were flying between DFW and SFO when midnight hit the four continental U.S. time zones, and we approached SFO for landing we saw the fireworks launching from the SF-Oakland Bay Bridge. After missing most of the worldwide TV coverage, I finally got to see some fireworks!

Here are my reminisces from 15 years ago: https://luscious-purple.livejournal.com/254790.html (it's a public post).

I'm amazed that we are now 20 years past all that. Happy New Year to all!
luscious_purple: The middle class is too big to fail! (middle class)
To jump-start my writing here....

1. What is one of your favorite things about your country?

We still have freedom of the press and the First Amendment. Who knows how long that's going to last?

2. What is your favorite thing to do on your country's national holiday?

Eat food, watch fireworks.

3. What do you usually do for your country's national holiday?

See answer to question 2.

4. What is your favorite national/regional ethnic dish?

Oh, gee, there are so many. Regions of the U.S., as opposed to my ancestors' homelands? I love Boston baked beans, Tex-Mex, burgers, McIntosh apples, real maple syrup....

5. Who is your favorite national hero and why?

It's a tie between Benjamin Franklin and Alexander Hamilton. Brilliant writers, no slaves...
luscious_purple: Boston STRONG! (Boston Strong)
Packing for Massachusetts tonight! I haven't been "home" since 2015. About time....

I updated my "Lady Patricia" blog with my two batches of Lithuanian cookies: http://ladypatriciaoftrakai.blogspot.com/2018/12/cookies-or.html. The entire second batch was consumed at Tina's party last night.

Between cookies and Washington Revels and parties, I'm finally feeling a bit festive in my personal life. Of course, politics in Our Nation's Capital sucks ROCKS. 2019 is going to be an economically tough year, I fear.

Back to packing. Happy Holidays, everyone.
luscious_purple: i'm in ur fizx lab, testin ur string therry (string therry)
Breakfast:
Caramel apple sweet rolls, made from local apples

Afternoon snackage:
Shrimp cocktail
Kalamata olives
Cheese and crackers, chips and dip

The main event:
Champagne (sparking wine), garnished with dried berries
Roasted turkey breast with homemade gravy
Brussels sprouts sauteed with bacon
Green beans
Homemade stuffing/dressing with nuts and dried berries
Cranberry sauce
Pumpkin pie, made with a REAL pumpkin, not the canned stuff

New year

Jan. 2nd, 2016 11:51 pm
luscious_purple: women's rights (Titivillius)
Happy New Year to all!

The boy toy and I spent New Year's Eve together at home. We watched Jurassic World, our Netflix disc that's been sitting around for a while. It was OK. We ate various foods, including shrimp, and drank Lithuanian beer instead of champagne. :-)

Yesterday we felt like "going out and doing something." We thought we would walk around Arundel Mills mall, since, we haven't been there in ages, but the parking lot was SO insanely jammed that we turned around and headed back to Prince George's County. After a visit to A.C. Moore, we ended up at the "festival of lights" at Watkins Regional Park. It was the last night of the show, and for $5 per car we got to crawl in low gear past an imaginative computer-controlled light show featuring lots of snowmen, Santas, elves, scenes from "The Wizard of Oz" and toy soldiers directing us along the route. Thanks to our county park system!

Today the boy toy and I took down most of our Christmas decorations, except for the live greenery -- I have to figure out where to recycle/compost the stuff.
luscious_purple: Boston STRONG! (Boston Strong)
Friday, July 3: It would have been my parents' 68th wedding anniversary. Of course, my parents were married for 34 years and about 7 weeks before my Dad died. Consequently, in about 14 weeks I'll be able to say that the time that has elapsed since my father's death is equal to the length of their marriage.

Saturday, July 4: Pretty quiet day staying at home. The boy toy and I binge-watched the second half of the first season of Turn on Netflix. We had watched the first half of the first season and then never got around to seeing the rest. Of course, we haven't seen the second season yet, and it's no longer on FiOS-on-Demand, so we'll have to wait a bit longer. In the evening, I went to the next court over in my condo complex to watch the municipal fireworks, while the boy toy stayed indoors to reassure poor Julia.

Sunday, July 5: Boy toy and I stopped at the farmers' market, where we bought our first peaches of the season, and then we drove down to the southern end of Calvert County (southern Maryland). We had a nice meal of fish and chips and checked out the Calvert Marine Museum, which has a little bit of everything -- dinosaur bones and other fossils, aquariums containing live fish, many different boats, tons of artifacts from the oyster and crab industries, and a restored lighthouse, complete with attached outhouse. (Apparently the museum hosted an outdoor Barenaked Ladies concert on Friday night. Dang.) On the way back home, we cruised some of the Calvert County byways in a search for public beaches that might be worth visiting in the future.

Coming up this week: work on my next freelance magazine article and an attempt at water aerobics class.
luscious_purple: scribal blot (scribal icon)
Questions from http://thefridayfive.livejournal.com/125279.html:

1.What is one of your diehard traditions for Christmas Eve?
My Christmas Eves have changed over the years. When I was young I spent them at home with my parents and we left milk and cookies out for my Dad (oops, I meant "Santa"). After he died, my mother and I baked cookies and exchanged gifts. Now I go for dinner and a gift swap at one of my cousins' houses.

2.How do you start your Christmas Day?
When I was young, I could ooh and aah over the presents under the tree, but my father believed that we should celebrate Jesus' birthday first. So I could empty out my stocking at breakfast, but the rest of the presents had to wait until we came back from morning Mass. Nowadays, I'll be staying at my cousin Steve's home, so I will have breakfast with the family and try not to feel like a total outsider.

3.Is there one gift in particular that you’d like to find under your tree?
A job offer. Or a pile of cash.

4.If you don’t celebrate Christmas, is there a holiday you do celebrate at this time?
Not applicable. (But I do respect other religious traditions.)

5.Do you have plans for New Year’s Eve yet?
Staying home with the boy toy. I don't like to be out on the road for New Year's Eve -- I once worked with a guy whose fiancee had been killed by a drunk driver on NYE in the mid-1970s.

July 5

Jul. 5th, 2014 11:17 pm
luscious_purple: The middle class is too big to fail! (middle class)
Yesterday was a low-key day, despite what my cat might have told you. :-) Over yesterday and today, the boy toy and I have watched all the episodes of the HBO series John Adams. We've seen them all before, but somehow it seemed like a good weekend to contemplate the origins of our nation.

Today the boy toy and I went out for a late lunch (our main meal), and then we went for a walk around Lake Artemesia. He'd never been to that park, which has a different vibe from the lake in our neighborhood. It was such a gorgeous day -- moderate heat and humidity, not a cloud in the sky -- much more like a Massachusetts summer day than our usual mid-Atlantic murk! I couldn't let the day go by without spending some of it outdoors. (And, hey, I gotta prep for Pennsic. *smile*)

Speaking of Pennsic, after our walk I pinned together the pattern pieces for my Ottoman coat, minus the sleeves. I would like to make a vest out of the remaining cloth that I didn't use for the coat, so that I can have a Turkish outfit for really hot weather. I'll probably send a photo of the thing to the woman who taught the Ottoman clothing class last fall, and also seek opinions at next Saturday's Storvik sewing party.
luscious_purple: i'm in ur fizx lab, testin ur string therry (string therry)
Today was full of science in ways both big and small.

This year I was asked to make my homemade creamed corn gluten-free because of a couple of guests who can't have gluten. Yesterday I posted on Facebook about this and got various suggestions. The only thing I needed to replace in the recipe was 1/4 cup of Wondra flour. I ended up using cornstarch because I could find some amid all the disarray in the kitchen area.

While watching the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade (yay, I got to see the UMass Minuteman Band on national TV!), I thought of Comet ISON and its close encounter with the Sun. I was lucky enough to find the NASA Google+ Hangout devoted to the Sun-grazing. I'm not sure the comet survived, and scientists aren't either, but it was certainly interesting to follow along as the creamed corn cooked itself in the crock-pot. (And, of course, I thought of how excited Pedro would have been.)

Finally, even though I've been criticizing the big-box stores for opening on Thanksgiving Day, I raced home from my Thanksgiving at T.H.'s after dessert so I could do a Skype interview with an engineering professor in Melbourne, Australia (which is 16 hours ahead of us right now). Hey, when you're a writer interviewing people all over the planet, you usually have to get them when they are available. So she and I (notice I said "she") had a nice chat about optical wireless communications.

I hope everybody in the U.S. had a great Thanksgiving!

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